I was a paying member in GA and decided to give it a try in IL. I had the same impression in GA that I have here. Although I have found numerous profiles in my area that are attractive, not a single one has responded. I don’t think I’m bad looking and I’ve had numerous dates from other sites. VictoriaHearts.com is almost as bad and I think there are two things at work First, being a pay to play site has a lot of profiles that show active but they no longer pay and can’t respond. The other is many people have their sights set so high that they will never find their perfect match.